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Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Stop Mind Reading

Ryan Plantz | Sunday, April 16, 2023

Our new series Emotionally Healthy Relationships explores the idea that spiritual maturity and emotional health are inseparable. This week, Ryan talks about the innately human tendency to read minds and assume we know what other people are thinking and why they act as they do, and offers practical steps for challenging the assumptions we make about each other that so often lead to conflict.

Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Clarify Expectations

Ryan Plantz | Sunday, April 23, 2023

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This week, Ryan continues our series Emotionally Healthy Relationships with a message on how to avoid unmet expectations – both in our personal relationships and in our relationship with God.

Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Become Self Aware

Ryan Plantz | Sunday, April 30, 2023

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This week in Emotionally Healthy Relationships, the art of becoming self-aware, or: how to take a really good look at yourself and understand the part of the iceberg beneath the waterline… starring David, Saul, a lyre, and a spear.

Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Listen Deeply

Ryan Plantz | Sunday, May 7, 2023

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We continue our series Emotionally Healthy Relationships this week, with a message about listening deeply to those around us. Listening is more than just being quiet, and Ryan helps us understand what it means to listen deeply by following Jesus’ example and listening incarnationally. (What does that mean? Listen and find out.)

Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Fight Cleanly

Ryan Plantz | Sunday, May 21, 2023

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Ryan closes our series Emotionally Healthy Relationships with a message on how to deal with the inevitable conflict that arises in our relationships – not by seeking fake peace but by becoming true peace-makers and fighting cleanly.